Mark Harmon, renowned for his portrayal of special agent Leroy Jethro Gibbs on “NCIS,” has a love story that mirrors his character’s directness. Unlike Gibbs, who experienced four onscreen marriages, Harmon married only once—to fellow actor Pam Dawber in 1987. Their enduring relationship began with a phone call in 1986 when, prompted by a friend, Harmon boldly called Dawber. The couple hit it off instantly and tied the knot just a year later.
In contrast to Hollywood norms, Harmon expressed his desire for a lasting marriage before meeting Dawber. He was candid about his monogamous nature, stating, “I’m not into catting around.” Dawber reciprocated Harmon’s sentiments, describing him as “fabulous” and confirming their compatibility.
The couple, known for keeping their relationship private, occasionally shares insights into their successful marriage. Harmon attributes their lasting connection to maturity, emphasizing that they were in their thirties when they married. Their differing perspectives and shared sense of humor contribute to their harmonious life.
Maintaining privacy has been a consistent choice for Harmon and Dawber, with Dawber noting that discretion is necessary to avoid exploitation by the press. Despite their reserved approach, the couple collaborated onscreen when Dawber joined the “NCIS” cast for a few episodes in 2018. Their real-life connection added authenticity to their onscreen dynamic, showcasing the depth of their enduring partnership.